Ramblings of neutral spirit. I wrote this May 7 2017 and it was left as a draft. I am publishing today as this message was lost, but not forgotten. It is just as important today as it was then.
Who are you?
I started doing events with preteens to focus on being true to who they are. Do you remember what it was like to be 12? oh the horror. It is a time that most of us block out and have to really try hard to get back in that place. Every single time- I am taken back to being that age. The age where suddenly we really care about what people think, we don’t want to sound dumb, we want to be cool, popular, funny, smart… we are desperately craving for acceptance and admiration. But at what cost? The cost of YOU.
YOU ARE SMART. YOU ARE AMAZING. YOU ARE INSPIRING. YOU ARE BRAVE. YOU ARE LOVED! You are the only you that exists. What good is life if you are always living in a way that does not feel 100% authentic yet this is something so many of us do. The best thing you can do for yourself is to start living authentically. Live in a way that YOU ARE PROUD OF YOU AND WHAT YOU ARE DOING!!!! So tell me, who are you? I want to know what excites you, what did you do today that you are proud of yourself for. cue the comment section. no, but seriously. If you read this and have any negative commentary… tell me how your negative thought or mindset is different than that of a 12-year-old. Open yourself up to the idea of this. Are you being real? Are you being authentic?
Your confidence is showing. News flash, you can’t fake it till you make it. The energy you put out is louder than the words you speak or the clothes that you wear. No amount of education or expensive clothing can mask the heaviness of false self. Does it really matter what type of car you drive, or how much that outfit cost? Does it really matter how much money you have in your bank account? It doesn’t, because success isn’t defined by these things. This is all material and you can’t take any of it with you.
Less about you- there is nothing to prove. The concept of this is so incredibly simple it is challenging. Confidence will come naturally if you are uniquely you. As an empath, I find it physically painful to be around someone who has such a low energy frequency. The more you talk about yourself does not equal confidence. Learn more about others, listening to others is more gratifying than speaking. What do you think people would say about you at your funeral? Oh they had so many nice things? Or “I will never forget the way they made me feel when they said abc it really encouraged me” “They made me feel like I was important” “They made time for me”. Think about it.
I wrote this May 7 2017 and it was left as a draft. I am publishing today as this message was lost, but not forgotten. It is just as important today as it was then.